- 01 Exclusive use
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A rental arrangement where one booking party has sole access to the entire property for the duration of their stay. No other guests, no shared spaces, no day visitors outside the booking. Distinct from a venue rental (single-day use) and a resort booking (shared dining rooms and grounds).
Why it matters hereEvery booking at Shawnigan Retreats is exclusive use of either the Lakeside House, the Cottage, or the whole 2-acre estate.
See also: Whole-property rental
Booking & rental terms
- 02 Shoulder season vs peak season
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Peak season is the busiest, highest-priced window — June through September here. Shoulder season is the months on either side (October through May). Rates drop, the lake is quieter, dates open up.
Why it matters hereThe Lakeside House drops from $5,999/night peak to $2,999/night shoulder. Same property, roughly half the price.
- 03 Cleaning fee
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A one-time fee added to the rental that covers full property turnover between guests — laundry, restocking, deep clean, hot tub reset. Separate from the nightly rate. Not refundable.
Why it matters here$200 for the Cottage, $450 for the Lakeside House, $650 for whole-property bookings.
- 04 Damage deposit
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A refundable hold against the credit card on file (or a separate authorization) that covers accidental damage during the stay. Released within 7 days of check-out if nothing is broken.
Why it matters hereDamage deposits scale to the booking size — a few hundred dollars for a weekend stay, more for a wedding weekend.
- 05 Hold (vs deposit)
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A hold is a short window — usually 24 to 72 hours — where a date is reserved off the calendar while a guest finalizes plans. A hold does not require payment. A deposit does. The hold becomes a confirmed booking once the deposit lands.
Why it matters hereIf you're still confirming a guest list or coordinating with parents, ask Brianna to hold dates before someone else books.
See also: Hold dates
- 06 Whole-property rental
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Renting both houses on the estate together — the 6-bedroom Lakeside House and the 2-bedroom Cottage — for up to 18 overnight guests. Includes every amenity: dock, beach, sauna, hot tub, pickleball court.
Why it matters hereWhole-property is the default for weddings, family reunions, and larger corporate offsites. From $3,500/night shoulder or $7,500/night peak.
See also: Exclusive use
- 07 Minimum stay
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The shortest number of nights you can book. Two nights year-round; three nights on summer long weekends and for corporate retreats.
Why it matters hereMost stays here run three or four nights — long enough that the property actually settles into rhythm.
See also: Full booking policy
Wedding & ceremony terms
- 08 Intimate wedding
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A wedding with a small guest count, typically 20 to 50 seated. Smaller than a traditional wedding, larger than an elopement. Focuses on close family and friends rather than a long invite list.
Why it matters hereOur seated capacity is 50; standing is 70. We're built for intimate, not large.
See also: Weddings
- 09 Elopement
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A wedding with just the couple, the officiant, and two witnesses (BC requires witnesses 19 or older). Sometimes a photographer. No reception, no guest list.
Why it matters hereElopements pay the same flat rental as larger weddings within capacity — the rental is for the property, not per guest.
- 10 Micro-wedding
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A wedding of 4 to 20 guests. Bigger than an elopement, smaller than an intimate wedding. Often a full ceremony and reception compressed into one location.
Why it matters hereMicro-weddings can sleep their entire guest list on-site (up to 18) — the rare wedding where nobody drives home.
- 11 Wedding weekend (Fri-Sun rental)
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A Friday-to-Sunday rental that turns the wedding into a three-day event — rehearsal dinner Friday, ceremony and reception Saturday, brunch Sunday.
Why it matters hereAlmost every wedding here is booked as a weekend. Setup, rehearsal, and tear-down need time that a one-day booking doesn't allow.
- 12 Ceremony location
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The spot where the actual vows happen. Most venues offer one; better venues offer two or three.
Why it matters hereShawnigan Retreats has four: the 60-foot west-facing dock, the sandy private beach, the cedar grove in the forest, and the lakeside lawn.
- 13 First look
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A pre-ceremony moment where the couple sees each other for the first time in private, usually with a photographer. Lets the emotional reveal happen before guests arrive and frees the cocktail hour for portraits.
Why it matters herePhotographers we've worked with often stage first-look photos on the dock or in the cedar grove — both naturally private.
- 14 Cocktail hour
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The gap between ceremony and dinner — drinks, canapés, photos. Usually one hour.
Why it matters hereOn our property cocktail hour usually happens on the deck or down by the dock while couples are off doing portraits.
- 15 Plated dinner vs buffet
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Plated: each guest is served an individual course at the table. Higher staffing cost, more formal, slower.
Buffet: guests serve themselves from a spread. Lower staffing cost, faster, lighter on the catering team.Why it matters hereEither works in the chef's kitchen. Our preferred caterers handle both — talk through pacing with them when you book.
- 16 Wedding party (vs guest list)
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The wedding party is the people who stand with the couple during the ceremony — bridesmaids, groomsmen, officiant, ring bearer, flower kids. Separate from the broader guest list, which includes everyone invited.
Why it matters hereThe wedding party often stays on-site while other guests stay in nearby Mill Bay, Cobble Hill, or Shawnigan Lake village.
- 17 Officiant
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The person who legally performs the marriage. In BC the officiant must be registered with BC Vital Statistics — a marriage commissioner, a religious official, or a single-event commissioner appointed for the day.
Why it matters hereEvery officiant on our preferred vendor list is registered. If you're bringing a friend, they'll need the single-event commissioner appointment.
See also: BC marriage commissioner · BC marriage licence
- 18 BC marriage commissioner
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A non-religious officiant appointed and registered by the Province of British Columbia to perform civil marriages. They show up, perform the ceremony, sign the paperwork, and submit it to BC Vital Statistics.
Why it matters hereThe Cowichan Valley and Greater Victoria have several. Brianna can recommend one if you don't already have an officiant lined up.
BC legal & permit terms
- 19 BC marriage licence
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The legal document required for every wedding in British Columbia, regardless of where the ceremony takes place. Apply at any Service BC location or authorized licence agent.
- Cost: $100.
- Validity: 3 months from date of issue.
- Issued: same-day in most cases.
- ID: both partners need government-issued photo ID. Previously married? Bring divorce or death certificate.
- Witnesses: two, both 19 or older, sign on the day.
Why it matters herePick yours up 2 to 4 weeks before the wedding — long enough to handle any issues, short enough that the 3-month validity isn't wasted. More on our weddings page.
Source: gov.bc.ca — Marriage Licence
- 20 Special Event Permit (SEP)
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A liquor permit from the BC Liquor and Cannabis Regulation Branch (LCRB) required when serving alcohol at a private event on private property.
- Filed online, roughly $25 for a private event.
- Apply 4 to 6 weeks before the date.
- The host applies (one of the couple, a parent, or a designated person 19+) — not the venue.
- Alternative: a licenced caterer can serve under their own liquor licence.
Why it matters hereIf you're running BYO bar service for the wedding, you need an SEP. The permit holder is responsible for host liability, server training (Serving It Right), and service hours.
Source: LCRB — Special Event Permits
- 21 Host liability insurance
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A short-term event insurance policy that covers the host (the SEP permit holder) for incidents tied to alcohol service or property damage during the event. Typical day-of policies run $150 to $400 depending on guest count.
Why it matters hereRequired for wedding bookings here when an SEP is in play. PAL Insurance and Aviva both offer single-event policies online.
See also: Special Event Permit
- 22 BC Vital Statistics
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The provincial agency that maintains BC's official records — births, deaths, marriages. Officiants register with them; marriage certificates are issued by them.
Why it matters hereThe official marriage certificate arrives by mail from BC Vital Statistics 6 to 8 weeks after the ceremony.
Source: gov.bc.ca — Marriages
- 23 Noise bylaw (Cowichan Valley)
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Local rules on amplified sound, typically restricting noise levels after a set hour. In the Cowichan Valley Regional District, evening amplified sound generally winds down by 10pm in residential areas.
Why it matters hereOutdoor amplified music wraps at 10pm. After that the party moves inside, where you can keep going as long as you'd like.
- 24 Marriage certificate (vs licence)
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The certificate is the official record of the marriage issued by BC Vital Statistics after the ceremony. The licence permits the marriage; the certificate proves it happened. They are not the same document.
Why it matters hereYou order the certificate separately at gov.bc.ca/marriages — usually arrives 6 to 8 weeks post-wedding. You'll need it to change names on ID, banking, and passports.
See also: BC marriage licence
Corporate retreat terms
- 25 Executive offsite
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A corporate retreat for senior leaders — typically a small group (6 to 16) away from the office for 2 to 4 days. Mix of strategy work, decision-making, and team time. Different from a sales kickoff or all-hands.
Why it matters hereThe Lakeside House sleeps 14 and seats 12 around the dining table — exactly the executive offsite footprint.
See also: Corporate Events
- 26 Team building
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Structured activities designed to improve team trust, communication, and connection. Can be facilitated workshops, shared meals, outdoor activities, or unstructured time together.
Why it matters hereOn the property: pickleball, paddleboarding, sauna sessions, and group dinners do most of the work without needing a facilitator.
- 27 Three-night minimum
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Corporate retreats here are booked for at least three nights. Two-night retreats burn most of day one on travel and day three on packing. Three nights gives a full middle day for the actual work.
Why it matters hereTuesday-to-Friday and Sunday-to-Wednesday are the most common patterns we see.
- 28 Boardroom-style setup
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Seating around a single rectangular or oval table so everyone faces inward and can see each other. Works for 8 to 12 people.
Why it matters hereThe dining table at the Lakeside House converts into a boardroom for 12 — power outlets at the table, 85-inch screen at one end.
- 29 Theater setup
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Rows of chairs facing a screen or stage, no tables. Used for presentations and talks where the audience is mostly listening rather than discussing.
Why it matters hereThe home theater seats 16 in theater configuration — useful for an all-hands presentation or a screening day.
- 30 Working dinner
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A meal that doubles as a meeting — usually the longest one of the retreat. Different from a social dinner: agenda on the table, decisions made between courses, wrap-up notes before dessert.
Why it matters hereMost teams book a private chef for one or two working dinners; the rest of the meals are either casual cook-together or eating out in Mill Bay and Cowichan Bay.
Property amenity terms
- 31 Finnish sauna (90°C)
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A dry wood-lined sauna heated to around 80 to 100°C with low humidity. Different from a steam room (high humidity, lower temperature) and an infrared sauna (radiant heat, much lower air temperature).
Why it matters hereOurs runs at roughly 90°C, seats six, and sits a few steps from the dock — sauna then lake plunge is the routine.
- 32 West-facing dock
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A dock oriented to catch the setting sun. Different from north- or east-facing docks, which lose the sun mid-afternoon.
Why it matters hereThe 60-foot cedar dock at Shawnigan Retreats faces west across the lake — sunset every clear evening, golden hour for ceremonies, and the warmest swimming water on the property.
- 33 Lakefront (vs oceanfront, vs lakeview)
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Lakefront: the land meets the water directly — no road, no public path, no other lots between the house and the lake.
Lakeview: you can see water from the property but don't necessarily touch it.
Oceanfront: saltwater shoreline (different ecosystem, different temperature, different cleanup).Why it matters hereShawnigan Retreats is true lakefront on a freshwater lake — walk-in swimming straight off the property, no road to cross.
- 34 Acres (2 acres at Shawnigan Retreats)
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A unit of land area. One acre is about 4,047 square metres or roughly the size of a football pitch.
Why it matters hereShawnigan Retreats sits on a 2-acre lakefront parcel — enough privacy that neighbouring houses are out of earshot and out of sight from the dock and lawn.
- 35 Pickleball
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A racquet sport played on a 20-by-44-foot court with a perforated plastic ball and solid paddles. Lower-impact than tennis, learnable in an afternoon, plays well across mixed skill levels.
Why it matters hereOur regulation court sits between the two houses. Paddles and balls are in the cabinet by the back door.
- 36 Hot tub (vs spa, vs whirlpool)
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Hot tub: a heated water vessel for soaking, typically 38 to 40°C, with jets.
Spa: broader category — can also mean a treatment facility.
Whirlpool: specifically describes the jets and is often used interchangeably with hot tub.Why it matters hereOurs is a six-person cedar-clad hot tub on the deck overlooking the lake. Runs at 38°C year-round.
See also: Amenities
Location & extras
- 37 Corkage fee
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A per-bottle fee that some venues charge when guests bring their own alcohol — typically $15 to $35 a bottle in BC. At a 50-person wedding, that can add $1,500 or more on top of the wine itself.
Why it matters hereAt Shawnigan Retreats: zero corkage. The Special Event Permit and a licensed bartender cover everything legally. Bring what you'd actually want to drink.
See also: Special Event Permit
- 38 Cowichan Valley
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The wine-growing region on south-central Vancouver Island, 30 to 60 minutes north of Victoria. Includes Shawnigan Lake, Cobble Hill, Mill Bay, and Duncan. Warmest year-round average temperature in Canada — the reason vineyards survive here.
Why it matters hereAbout a dozen wineries, several distilleries, and the kind of farmland that supplies Victoria's better restaurants. Most guests spend at least a half-day wine touring nearby.
See also: Cowichan Valley wine tour
- 39 Offsite
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A corporate event — strategy session, planning sprint, team retreat — held away from the company's office. Typically one to five days. Functionally a synonym for retreat in the BC corporate vocabulary.
Why it matters hereMost companies say "offsite" for the working version and "retreat" when the agenda includes a sauna.
See also: Executive offsite
- 40 YYJ (Victoria International Airport)
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The IATA airport code for Victoria International Airport — the main air gateway to southern Vancouver Island.
Why it matters here45 minutes by car from Shawnigan Retreats. Direct flights from Vancouver, Calgary, Toronto, and seasonal service from Seattle. Most corporate teams fly into YYJ in the morning and are in the great room by lunch.
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